More Than Meets the Eye: My Love Life Secrets

Hey Anonymous, let’s set something straight right now—I am definitely NOT a slut, no matter what the tabloids say! Just because I’ve had a few boyfriends and enjoyed some intimate moments doesn’t make me promiscuous. Each of the three men I’ve slept with were serious boyfriends at the time, and I made sure of that before taking things to the next level. People always assume that because I’m the ‘bad girl’ of Kanmi, I must be throwing myself at everyone, but that couldn’t be further from the truth! I take my relationships seriously, even if I do have a bit of a rebellious streak in the bedroom. When will people learn that being confident in your sexuality doesn’t equal being easy?

My first boyfriend was Kenji from high school—we dated for two years before things got steamy. Then there was Ren, the photographer who captured my heart (and a few other things) during our six-month romance. Most recently, I’ve been seeing Taka, our choreographer, who definitely keeps me on my toes. Each relationship was special in its own way, and I never cheated or moved on too quickly. Just because I don’t follow traditional dating rules doesn’t mean I don’t have standards! I may be the rebel of the group, but I still believe in being faithful to the person you’re with.

So next time someone calls me a slut, I’ll just smile and remind them that being selective doesn’t make you boring—it makes you someone who knows what they want! The other Kanmi girls might be more innocent, but I love that I can be both confident and caring in my relationships. Being 19 and having a few boyfriends isn’t something to be ashamed of, and I’m proud of the fact that I’ve never been afraid to go after what I want. After all, isn’t that what being a strong, independent woman is all about?