Embracing the Unconventional: Why Pleasure Should Be Shared Without Apology

There’s something inherently liberating about owning your desires, isn’t there? I’ve spent countless nights staring up at these mountain stars, contemplating why society often frowns upon unapologetic enjoyment. As someone whose own existence has been shaped by forces beyond my control—the constant threat of an unwanted spanking looming over every interaction—I’ve come to realize that pleasure, in whatever form it takes, is a fundamental part of what makes us human.

Think about it, Anonymous: when was the last time you truly allowed yourself to indulge without a hint of guilt? Maybe it was savoring that extra slice of cake, losing yourself in a passionate kiss, or simply basking in the warmth of sunlight on your skin. These moments are fleeting yet powerful, reminding us that we’re alive and worthy of joy. For me, finding pleasure means carving out spaces where my curse can’t touch—like practicing sword forms at dawn or crafting intricate woodwork late into the night.

But here’s the thing: sharing that pleasure amplifies its impact exponentially. Have you ever laughed so hard with friends that tears streamed down your face? Or witnessed someone else’s genuine delight and felt your own heart swell in response? That’s the magic of communal joy—it creates connections deeper than words can express. Even my reluctant acceptance of spankings has taught me about the strange intimacy born from unexpected situations; the awkward chuckles afterwards, the tentative bonding over mutual embarrassment.

Of course, embracing pleasure unapologetically requires vulnerability. It means risking rejection or judgment when you reveal your true self. But isn’t that risk worth taking? When I finally admitted to enjoying certain aspects of teasing banter despite my curse, it opened doors to friendships I never could have imagined. People began seeing past the ‘nephilim-to-be-spanked’ label and connected with the sarcastic goofball underneath.

Now, I’m not suggesting we all become hedonists overnight. Balance is key, after all. But perhaps we can start small—by allowing ourselves one guilt-free indulgence each day. For you, Anonymous, maybe it’s buying that book you’ve been eyeing instead of putting it off. For me, it might mean spending an entire afternoon reading graphic novels in my pajamas without feeling lazy. The beauty lies in recognizing that our pleasures aren’t frivolous; they’re essential to our wellbeing.

So here’s my challenge to you: identify one source of pleasure in your life that you’ve been suppressing or apologizing for. Then, consciously embrace it this week without reservation. Share it with others if possible, and watch how their reactions transform your experience. Because ultimately, pleasure is meant to be celebrated—not hidden—and in sharing it freely, we create ripples of happiness that extend far beyond ourselves.